This past weekend, my fiancé and I decided to go and see the new Taraji P. Henson movie, Acrimony, and I couldn’t help but leave the movie theater feeling a little torn. I absolutely don’t want to give too many spoilers away, but if you’ve seen the previews, then what I’m about to say won’t come as too much of a surprise to you. The movie centers around newly-divorced Melinda and her ex-husband, Robert. Melinda tells the complete story of her and Robert’s relationship. The bottom line is that they met and fell in love in college, and despite the warning signs and doubt from her family, Melinda and Robert quickly got married. It’s difficult for me to explain why I’m so torn and what I’m so torn about without giving a little something away. Spoiler Alert: Melinda eventually asked Robert for a divorce. Their marriage wasn’t exactly a cake walk, but it was really her sisters who had gotten into her head about her husband. Long story short, Melinda eventually wants to get back with Robert, but after paying him a visit, she quickly realized that wasn’t going to happen. He had moved on and everything that was wrong with their relationship, he was now making up for with his new woman. Now, anyone watching the previews can see that Melinda was definitely off the rocker, but was it really for no reason at all? I’m definitely not justifying her crazy, but does her ex-husband not have a part in this at all? What if this happened to you? How would you react? I personally see it as this. Too many times, men screw over the woman that they’ve been with for over a decade, but quickly start over with the next woman. It always seems like it’s the women who are with them while they’re in the mud too, but then they trade them in for a younger or more high profile version once they get to a certain status. This isn’t completely the case with Melinda, because Robert didn’t want to leave in the first place, but the situation is still painful. The entire time I’m like, “Damn, that’s messed up, but she took crazy to a whole new level.” My fiancé’s first reaction after seeing the movie: “Man she was crazy as hell!” My first reaction: “Yeah she definitely was, but how would you react to that situation?” I want to know what you all think about this. If you’ve seen the movie, did you feel for Melinda at all and how would you react? For someone like me, it takes a while for me to love you but once I do, I love pretty hard. It would take a lot of ice cream and loud, ugly singing to Beyoncé and Adele to get me through it, but I’d definitely get there one way or the other. Adele would help me wish him well and Beyoncé would get me to the point of feeling myself! How do you all get over heartbreak? I want to know some of your craziest/funniest breakup rituals and/or stories!