No Struggle? No Progress.


It’s been a month or so since I’ve last attended church, but my fiancee’ and I were determined to go this past Sunday. It’s selfish of us to believe that God will speak to you and you only every Sunday that you step into the sanctuary, but I’ve learned as I’ve gotten older that the message isn’t always meant specifically for me. Sometimes God gives us messages to pass along to the people in our lives or strangers that we spark up a conversation with in the coffee shop. Continue reading “No Struggle? No Progress.”

Love Is____


Y’ALL. This show right here is just Black Love at it’s finest. Yes, I said Black Love and not just Love. It’s about BLACK LOVE and that’s something I’d like to see more of on-screen. Continue reading “Love Is____”

My 5 Favorite Stress Relievers

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a state of mental or emotional strain or tension resulting from adverse or very demanding circumstances.

Stress is such an underrated issue in today’s society. It’s a normal feeling, but it’s important to not let it take over you. For someone like me, who deals with serious anxiety, I’m constantly looking for ways to de-stress myself when my anxiety is kicking into overdrive. Continue reading “My 5 Favorite Stress Relievers”

Be Selfish


I’ve been reading the book “You Are a Badass: How to Stop Doubting Your Greatness and Start Living an Awesome Life” by Jen Sincero and it’s AMAZING! This book is actually one of the inspirations that lead me to start this blog. Continue reading “Be Selfish”

OK Ladies – Now let’s get it together!

img_1027If you haven’t seen my latest youtube video, please do so here. My latest vlog gives you a sneak peek into my weekend, where I’ve attended a twerk class, a photo shoot coordinated by Black Girls Who Collaborate; a millennials networking group for women of color, and also an event called Currently Creating; which was a networking event for creative millennials. Continue reading “OK Ladies – Now let’s get it together!”

Let It Go

img_1715“Your time keeps flying away into vanity while you dine with your distractions. Your life keeps diminishing while you waste your time feeding your distractions.” – Sunday Adelaja

When I was much younger, I would always tell myself that I never wanted to be like one of those adults who said that they wish they had done something in their life and didn’t. You know, those people who talk about how they could’ve gone to the the NBA if they had spent more time focusing on the big picture instead of worrying about goofing off with friends, or those people who regret that they didn’t move to that big city to pursue their dream career instead of staying around for that partner who wasn’t good for them anyway? Continue reading “Let It Go”

Strength of a Woman


“A strong woman builds her own world. She is one who is wise enough to know that it will attract the man she will gladly share it with” –Ellen J. Barrier

Has anyone ever heard a man describe what they feel would be their ideal woman? I’m sure at some point or another in the early stages of dating, we all have. One quality always stuck out in particular, because I always hear men say that this is what they want, but I question whether they really want this or if it just sounds good in conversation? The quality that I’m talking about, if you haven’t guessed it already based on the title of this post, is strength. Continue reading “Strength of a Woman”